The garter toss is one of those moments that can go a lot of different ways depending on the couple and the crowd. Some couples want to lean into the humor, some want to keep it quick and simple, and others choose to skip it altogether. If you are doing it, the music matters.
Many couples use one song for both the garter retrieval and the toss. You do not have to.
A great approach is to use two different songs:
One for the retrieval (something playful or dramatic)
One for the toss (something high-energy and fun)
For example:
Mission Impossible Theme works perfectly for the retrieval
I’m Too Sexy – Right Said Fred is always a hit for the toss
You can also use one song for the entire moment:
Blurred Lines – Robin Thicke works well for both
One quick reality check:
The garter does not fly very far.
Grooms… you might want to practice.
Songs That Actually Work for Garter Toss Moments
This is a curated list based on what still gets reactions at weddings.
Classic / Fun Energy
Pony – Ginuwine
Pour Some Sugar On Me – Def Leppard
Cherry Pie – Warrant
Danger Zone – Kenny Loggins
Another One Bites The Dust – Queen
Bad To The Bone – George Thorogood
You Sexy Thing – Hot Chocolate
R&B / Hip-Hop Picks
Hot In Herre – Nelly
Peaches & Cream – 112
Candy Shop – 50 Cent
SexyBack – Justin Timberlake
Still Not A Player – Big Pun ft. Joe
Country / Crowd-Friendly
Save A Horse (Ride A Cowboy) – Big & Rich
Man! I Feel Like A Woman! – Shania Twain
Modern / Newer Options
Titi Me Pregunta – Bad Bunny
The Man – Aloe Blacc
Caroline – Aminé
Wildcard / Personality Picks
Suit & Tie – Justin Timberlake
Death Of A Bachelor – Panic! At The Disco
Hooked On A Feeling – Blue Swede
A Better Way to Think About It
The garter toss is not about the song.
It is about the moment.
The best results happen when:
The couple is comfortable with it
The groom leans into it just enough
The DJ keeps it moving and does not let it drag
If it starts to feel awkward, we move on. If it is getting a great reaction, we can stretch it a little.
Just like everything else during the reception, it is all about reading the room.
A Quick Reminder
Remember, this is your day.
Only include the traditions you actually want to do.
If the garter toss fits your vision, we will make it fun and memorable.
If it doesn’t, skip it. No one will miss it, and your guests will still have an amazing time.
Pro Tip
If you are unsure about doing a garter toss at all, you are not alone. A lot of couples are skipping it now.
And that is completely fine.
The goal is always the same: keep the energy up and the dance floor full.